One thing you can do after a breakup with a girlfriend is a change of scenery. It is super important because it’s good for the soul to get out of your day to day life and honoring yourself by getting a breath of fresh air.
When we change our scenery we can change our perspective.
With space and perspective we may start seeing things that we couldn’t before because we were in our normal day to day lives and going through the motions. Think about your daily life. Are you exploring and experiencing or are you working, eating, maybe school, sleeping. You probably eat at the same places pretty often. But this routine is probably the same as it was while in your relationship. Expand yourself while you are doing things after a breakup with your girlfriend.
You can do this on the cheap too. Visit friends or family, go camping with friends, you can do a staycation, but go stay somewhere.
I like staycations because it gives me an opportunity to be a tourist in my own city. It allows me to see the beauty of what my city has to offer. The museums, the parks, the different foods. I know I do not take the time to take in my own town because I’m set in my routine. When friends visit I have to really think about what the heck to do. Staycations open the door of seeing and attending places I haven’t before.
If you can’t do any of that, take a long shower, go eat somewhere new, but get away.
Focus on you.
Enjoy a break from your daily life.
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